Each person in certain periods of his life was faced with loneliness.
Unfortunately, most people do not know how to be alone with themselves; they try to find happiness in others. Although sometimes it’s useful to be in free swimming: you can understand yourself, solve some problems and prepare for a new love.
But only if this period is delayed, there is nothing to rejoice. Women are especially worried about this. Everyone wants to start a family, give birth to children, twist a family nest, meet their beloved husband with a delicious dinner.
Single women can be seen from afar. Maybe that’s why they don’t succeed with men. Of course, they are all different, they just behave the same.
Below are 10 signs of loneliness that are not obvious to the woman herself, which give her away with her head. If you also suffer from loneliness, try changing your behavior a little. So, let's begin.
10. Talking about love
Single women love talking about love. They give advice with pleasure, sit on various women's forums, read many books about psychology and the relationship between a man and a woman. It seems to them that they know something about love that others do not even suspect.
If a woman has a man, she will not have time to engage in such nonsense. She will not look for any deep meaning in the relationship. She will enjoy the company of her beloved person, giving him all her free time.
If your new friend loves to talk about love, then she definitely has no one.
9. Excessive friendliness
A non-free woman often does not pay attention to men. She will not offer help to a pretty colleague, will not answer stupid questions from strangers.
A lonely girl, on the contrary, is distinguished by excessive friendliness. She wants to please men. She hopes that one of them will definitely appreciate her kindness (and maybe slender legs and beautiful eyes) and offer to meet.
A free girl, desperate for a relationship, can behave very intrusively. She will offer help, even if no one asks for it.
8. Mocking married friends
A free woman will never understand the problems of a married friend. She will make fun, make fun, can be indifferent or revealingly dismissive.
This is how life is arranged, and often the marriage of one of her friends destroys even the strongest friendship.
Most single girls will not support married friends, they will not offer help, but will pretend that they are not interested in all these problems. For her, it simply does not matter.
In the circle of married friends, she will gladly make it clear how wonderful a free life is. That's just all this is nothing more than tinsel, she plays the role of a happy free woman, and she secretly dreams of a family.
7. The struggle for attention
An active woman is easily recognized in a public place. She laughs out loud, jokes, tells stories, flirts, tries to always be in the center of events.
It can cause irritation to others with its pretense of gaiety, especially if there is no reason for joy.
Active behavior - this is what distinguishes a lonely girl from the crowd. She wants to arouse interest among people of the opposite sex, she seeks to please them by any means.
6. Love of TV shows
If the life of a lonely girl is calm and measured, she does not have a large number of fans, she is not called on dates, the only entertainment for her is television.
Of course, this does not mean that other women do not watch TV shows and series, they just do not have so much free time.
Another thing is single girls. For many of them, a television show replaces their own life. Lonely girls are always up to date with all the new products, they know everything about the latest programs and films and share their impressions with pleasure.
5. Shopaholism
All women love shopping, but those who do not have a man are more likely to shop. Shopping is a great way to kill time.
Walking around the malls is pleasant, useful and fun. There are many handsome men. To attract their attention, you always need to look good, and this requires beautiful fashionable clothes.
Still, the most important factor that forces a woman to visit shopping centers again and again is emotions.
Most often, free women who go there “for happiness” become visitors to the stores. They want to experience the joy of another purchase and, at least for a while, forget about loneliness.
4. Web Behavior
Of course, single women are very active in social networks. They often post love posts, willingly engage in polemics with people of the opposite sex. They spend a lot of time on the Internet, especially at night.
Such women will never refuse to chat in forums, again, exclusively with men. On the forum, a single woman can be recognized by nickname. Or he is very loud - Cleopatra, Queen, Lady Bitch; either soft and gentle - Assol, Angel.
3. Love for parties
What else can lonely girls do, do not sit at home. They regularly attend parties, night clubs, and various social events.
Married friends are envious, they also dream of such a pastime.
That's just nothing good here. Lonely girls go to clubs as if to work, they have long been remembered by security guards and some visitors to the institution. They come there not to rest, but to hunt.
This is hard work, first you need to find a victim, then draw attention to yourself, seduce, get to know each other. The older the woman, the less likely she is. If the party was unsuccessful, it was not possible to meet anyone, the girl is disappointed. She goes to her empty apartment or sits at the bar until the morning.
2. Glance and facial expression
A lonely girl is easy to find in the crowd: she looks at men appraisingly. At the sight of happy couples, she can make a grimace or feel sad.
However, loners and women look appraisingly. True, only those who go next to men. It is as if they are comparing themselves with every unfree girl, trying to understand why she is better.
If an attractive man appears on the horizon, the same one that she has been waiting for her whole life, her look changes, he is filled with hope.
Girls who are in a relationship will never look like that, they have nothing to hope for.
1. Intentional appeal
Perhaps the easiest way to get to know a single woman is to look at her appearance. Although married girls try to look good, one way or another, most of them lose free.
They look sexy, even when they take out the trash or go for bread. They wear mini and heels not only for the party, but also for a walk in the park.
An ideal appearance is the only chance to attract the attention of men. After all, no matter what they say about the inner world, first the man looks at the “cover”, and then at the “content”.
If a girl looks like she just left a beauty salon, her clothes are perfectly combined, and also emphasizes her all the advantages, before you is a person who longs for love.
Unfortunately, many men do not appreciate the efforts of single girls. They perceive their deliberate attractiveness and sexuality as accessibility. In this case, there can be no talk of any serious relations.