Every girl dreams of finding her only one, getting married and having children. One does not seek serious relationships, the second is “sissy,” the third is generally married.
This is what they will be discussed in this article about men who are not free, but who thirst to seem like that. Many girls say: "I will never meet with a married man." Naive, they simply cannot imagine what men are capable of.
You already know that not all “marriages” are true to their halves. Again, this does not mean that they walk along the street with a sign: “I am looking for a girl for a pleasant conversation. Married. " Accordingly, you can find out the marital status of a new fan only after seeing his passport.
By the way, even the lack of a stamp does not mean anything. Some men and women live together, raise children, but are in no hurry to formalize the relationship. In order not to get into an unpleasant situation, do not fall in love with a married man, just look at the behavior of his boyfriend.
10. He does not invite you to his place.
You meet for a month, six months or a year, but you have never visited him. No, of course, he has an apartment. He’s just not in a hurry to invite you there. Perhaps there is a repair going on, or he lives with a crazy grandmother. Maybe he was sheltered by a friend while repairs were being completed in a luxury cottage.
Don't you still find this behavior suspicious? If the man has serious intentions, then he will certainly invite you to visit. If he lives not alone, at least for evening tea.
If he constantly begs for a visit, or rents a hotel room, it looks very suspicious. Most likely, his wife and several ruddy kids are waiting for him at home.
9. Does not carry the things you donated
If he does not use the donated items, you should have suspicions. A man in love will be happy with the most trifling gift, he will want to show how this thing and your attention are dear to him.
He will put on a stupid sweater with deers, multi-colored mittens, put in the car a DVR, a model of which he does not like.
A married man will ask you not to splurge, he will accept the gift, thank, and then “accidentally” forget him. And if he takes it, he will never use it.
Of course, if a man is self-confident and arrogant, he will come up with what to lie to his wife. Therefore, if your beloved put on the shirt that you gave him, this does not mean that he is free.
8. Tries not to stay with you at night
He never has to stay with you for the night. His crazy grandmother should not be left alone, otherwise she will burn or flood the apartment. A friend is also afraid to sleep alone, in his childhood he went too far with horror films, and now every night he comes to Freddy Krueger.
And your boyfriend has a dog that is so afraid of loneliness that it will spoil all repairs in the new cottage.
Sounds implausible? So why then do you still believe in all these tales? It's simple, he does not stay with you for the night, because he has a family.
7. On weekends and holidays, he cannot be near.
You have not made any joint plans for the weekend, because the beloved is busy all the time. There are problems with my grandmother again, or maybe an urgent project or a job call.
Of course, a man can have his own affairs, but if this is repeated systematically, it is worth considering. He is married. You don’t want to spend all weekends and holidays alone?
No matter how painful, find strength in yourself and end this hopeless relationship.
6. Says he has no page in any of the social networks.
The man says that he hates social networks, you can’t even look for him there. You, of course, did not believe him and already looked for his page. Not found. Do not rush to trust him.
There are very few people who do not have a social network page. Most likely, your boyfriend is registered under some nickname, by last name and first name you will not find him.
Representatives of the strong half of humanity, for the most part, do not like to post their photos on public display. Or maybe, on the contrary, in his profile there are a lot of family photos from vacation and graduation in kindergarten. True, you are unlikely to find them.
5. Does not build joint plans
You already think which dress to choose for the wedding, and the groom still does not dare. He does not think about the future, everything suits him. He does not agree to plan even a joint vacation. He says that he is busy at work or has many problems that will have to be solved for a long time.
In fact, this behavior is an alarming bell. There are two options: your beloved is married, or he does not take you seriously. And in that, and in another case, you will be left alone, to mourn your unfulfilled dreams. You don’t want this? Then throw such a boyfriend, do not waste your precious time on him.
4. He often turns off the phone
You can never reach him, he does not reply to messages. So often do married men. It either ignores your calls or is always inaccessible.
Perhaps he is calling you from another phone, or he has bought a special SIM card for this purpose. You probably do not believe that men are capable of this, but how else can you explain such strange behavior.
Even if a man is free, a permanently disconnected phone will soon begin to annoy you. Suddenly you need help, who will you call? A person who has nothing to hide will not turn off the phone.
3. He is against joint photographs
You are ready to tell the whole world about your happiness. With pleasure I take pictures and post photos on social networks. The next day, your beloved makes a scandal for you. He says that you posted the photo without his permission, screams and demands to delete it. You fulfill his demand with tears in your eyes. You are so upset that you did not even remember that your loved one does not have a page on the social network.
How did he learn about photography? Anyway, he really does not like to be photographed, always against joint photos. It's just that your boyfriend is afraid of compromising himself.
2. Subtlety, he speaks little of himself
If the chosen one says little about himself, this should also alert you. He does not tell how he spends his free time, what he is fond of. You do not know where and by whom he works.
If he disappears, you cannot find him, because you have no idea about his life. But he willingly shares with you school and student memories, tells cute funny stories about friends or acquaintances.
Again, so carefully that you cannot find out anything superfluous. There’s nothing to even think about, he has a family. A man will do everything so that you do not know anything about her.
1. Does not introduce you to relatives and friends
If your boyfriend does not introduce you to relatives and friends, then everything is clear. Perhaps he will say that he will introduce you to your parents tomorrow or in a week. It turns out that in a week he will not be able, in two parents will leave, in three something else will happen.
If he introduced you to his friends, this also does not guarantee the absence of a stamp in the passport. Some men allow themselves and such, though they are few.
He also does not agree to meet your parents, friends and girlfriends. He does not say no, but at the crucial moment does not come, something stops him. Take a closer look at it, a loving man is happy to get acquainted with the relatives and friends of his girlfriend.