Infidelity, sexual debauchery and the pursuit of animal pleasures are modern vices of society that are becoming increasingly difficult to eradicate. Media and journalism are developing similar thoughts in adult men, making them secretly dream of a fatal seducer for one-time pleasures.
Not surprisingly, the statistics of male (and female) infidelity in some cities already exceeds 50%. Moreover, thanks to the same men's magazines, films and more “developed” friends, men learn a “valuable” skill - to hide traces of their infidelity and swindles. Of course, because it is so convenient to satisfy instincts with a suitable “female” on the side, and return home to a cozy and understanding wife who, after a hard working day, will listen and feed, and she will bear children later.
Below we give 10 signs that your man is walking "to the left." Keep your finger on the pulse and expose the traitor - can such a man set a healthy example for the future (or growing up) son, daughter?
10. Inadequate reaction to jokes and thoughtfulness
The man began to react strangely to your words, especially when you exude positive and cordiality. His conscience is unclean and makes him feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable, and you dare to be cheerful, as usual. An inadequate reaction to jokes is annoyance, reproaching you for the “plane of humor,” etc. Joking hints or jokes about infidelity that you personally or in the company are particularly aggressive. For a man, this is a reason to "stand on their hind legs" and begin to defend themselves. But the best defense is an attack ... What is your man protecting himself from, if not from exposing it? Another reaction to such comments may be stupor, confusion and thoughtfulness. A man hides in the usual "cave" and tries to balance his internal state, to overcome reproaches of conscience.
9. The smell of another woman
One of the surest reasons that a man is unfaithful to you. Of course, modern ladies shower themselves with perfumes from head to toe, which even from an ordinary “kiss on the cheek” familiar to her train can settle on clothes for a long time. Therefore, “aromas” are considered as evidence only in case of repeated repetition. Please note whether they are the same perfumes or different, how persistent in strength, whether they coincide “on schedule” with the husband’s absence hours in the evenings or on weekends. Also suspicious will be the excessive cleanliness of a man who has not been seen before. For example, after work, he immediately goes to the bathroom, and puts things in the wash.
8. The man became a workaholic
There are different periods in life - sometimes enough work really does pile on, forcing you to stay late in the office until late or even spend the night. In this case, you can calmly call the man, and he will pick up the phone quickly enough and without any fuss, whisper and strange words, he will talk to you, do not hesitate to say personal things, for example: “I miss”. If the impulses to work are accompanied by a disconnection of phones and mystery, returning home in the morning, and for extra-curriculum they did not even offer surcharge - well, this is an occasion to think.
7. Changes in the car
When a woman cheats, she invests time and money in the main “commodity” - her body. The man understands that it is possible to interest a curious woman, who is greedy for image and status, with a cool car and other branded things. It is very strange if a man begins to tidy up the car with amazing enthusiasm - repaints, polishes and covers with wax, regularly washes, gets accessories (seat covers, fragrances, etc.). Also, the thought can lead to infidelity when your passenger seat is suddenly in an unusual position, wet wipes, chewing gum or other new little things are found in the glove compartment, and there may be several cigarette butts in the ashtray, etc. By the way, regular breakdowns of the car are also a reason to be absent at home several times a week for a couple of hours.
6. New things in bed
Until then, no diversity for years, and then suddenly an unusual inspiration? At the same time, note that the man does not approach this issue in terms of joint training. He precisely knows what he is doing and wants to “work it out” for you. At the same time, he is visited by a sincere belief that girls like this, so asking for your opinion is not necessary at all. Yes, and on healthy questions “where such agility” or “where did you learn” can get in response to irritation or the phrase “saw in the movie”. Usually in a family a movie is watched together in the evenings ... This is where did he manage to quietly watch such “educational” films?
5. Change of image
Men, especially aging ones, also begin to invest sharply in their “body” after the appearance of their first lover. Perhaps she even clearly dictates to him what changes she wants to see. A man is faced with an unexpected moment for him, because for years his wife accepted him for what she is - with gray hair, old pants and socks, unshaven, sick and sweaty, and here you need to be an elite “male” with good perfume and high-quality underwear. Yes, men also begin to “upgrade” their wardrobe without saving on themselves. You suddenly notice that your husband understands fashion trends, switched to expensive suits and shirts, got status accessories and even started choosing socks underwear. Changes also affect the appearance - your man can become a regular barbershop, as well as sign up for the sports section.
4. Unusual behavior
Twitching insecure behavior is a sign of some kind of trauma, conflict with inner conscience and honesty. If a man walks to the left, then with a high degree of probability he will break down at home, attack you on trifles, invent silly reasons for quarrels. On the other hand, a categorically opposite conduct may also appear - he suddenly begins to cherish and cherish you, bring flowers and gifts, try to spend time together, make love more often.
3. New habits
Along with changes in appearance in the life of the spouse, new unexpected addictions and habits may appear. For example, you noticed that he changed his permanent brand of cigarettes, bought extra toilet water, began to raise a toilet seat or remove tea bags from your favorite tablecloth. Or maybe in his vocabulary suddenly appeared new words, parasites, which are also more characteristic of the female style. Also among the acquired habits can be a cheeky bold behavior, undisguised flirtation with other girls, jokes on erotic topics.
2. Forgetfulness and fatigue
You noticed that without objective reasons the man suddenly forgot all the memorable dates and requests, no longer knows how to keep his word, forgets to put on a wedding ring. Your husband constantly feels tired and exhausted, but at the same time happy enough. Surprisingly, his alleged "fatigue" manifests itself mainly in relation to his wife when she wants to have sex or spend time together. Of course, why is it for a man who has already "eaten sour cream" in another place.
1. Jealousy and calculation
Psychologists noticed that if a person violently criticizes shortcomings in another, then, as if in a mirror, he subconsciously sees them in himself. Seizures of jealousy and nit-picking in your direction may indicate that the man himself is “unclean” and feels his guilt. Suddenly, for no reason, he began to check your social networks, take a mobile phone for you during a call. Also in the behavior of a man a very clever calculation may appear. In order for his wife not to bother him in “crucial moments”, the man paints his workload almost hourly, showing unprecedented employment and the inability to answer calls.
We urge wives to be vigilant but prudent. By no means always these signs indicate the presence of a mistress - a man may have a difficult period of life, or he generally began to rethink his behavior, grow up, grow wiser. Confidence in the family has not been canceled yet, so do not rush to destroy the marriage with your attacks and suspicions. A healthy dialogue and mutual understanding, as well as a little observation, will help you confirm or refute the theory that arose in your head.