Not all relationships with men bring exclusively positive emotions. Below are 10 signs that indicate the need for parting with a man.
10. Does not make joint plans for the future
If a man seems to live a momentary moment, it is unlikely that he will succeed in building long and lasting relationships. A person who is serious, will always make plans, talk about the future, support the woman’s ideas regarding the family, at home, spending time together. If this does not happen, then for sure the man takes the relationship frivolously, is not going to continue them in the future, let alone marry. Checking whether a person has thoughts on joint plans is very easy. It is enough to start a conversation about it and look at the reaction. If the man actively held the conversation, then everything is fine. If he avoids the answer, is nervous, freaking out, it is unlikely that plans for the future ripened in his head.
9. Publicly humiliates
The behavior of men in relation to women in society says a lot. It is assumed that your companion must be treated with attention and respect. But if a man can publicly humiliate a woman, insult her, then he should run away from such a man. Humiliation can manifest itself in criticism of other people, unflattering remarks, direct insults. A man can pretend that he is ashamed of a woman, uncomfortable. For example, he may speak in the style of: “Well, that you are so dressed up, ashamed of your friends!”, “Correct your hair, look like an idiot!”
8. Recklessly spending money
The financial issue in relationships is always very important, especially if people already live together. You need to take a closer look at how a man behaves in relation to money. If he does not think about expenses at all, lives for his own pleasure, spends money on his own needs, then it is worth thinking about breaking up. In the future, such a person is unlikely to recover, and will be littering finances, and his wife will be left without financial assistance.
7. Uses dating sites
If a man has a profile on a dating site, then this should greatly alert the woman. This signals that the relationship does not have a lot of weight for a person, that he is still in the process of choice. Even if a man swears that he is not meeting anyone, but simply, for example, is distracted from current problems, you should not believe him. Any such communication, any acquaintance in the future can lead to a meeting, treason, new relationships. It is better to get ahead of an unpleasant situation and to abandon a person who does not respect a woman so much that she does not make her unique.
6. Flirts with others
Tender communication with other girls is another indicator of a man’s frivolous attitude. If a person’s heart is occupied only by one woman who is next to him, then he will never think about any flirtation. Other ladies will simply not attract him, even if they are desperately trying to attract the attention of a handsome man. Therefore, one should be wary if the satellite does not communicate exactly with the fair sex, but smiles at them with might and main, releases compliments, flirts, not realizing that this can be unpleasant for a woman.
5. Bad habits
If a man sometimes drinks or smokes in reasonable quantities, then this is not a big deal for many women. You should be wary if bad habits go beyond the norm. For example, if a person periodically falls into a binge, then you should not associate his life with him. If we are talking about drugs, then you should generally run away from the man as far as possible. Alcohol and drugs greatly affect consciousness, make a person inadequate. Even if in a sober state he seems completely normal, then this is a deceptive impression. Promises to “give up” should not be believed; in most cases, dependence is much stronger than a person. In addition to alcohol or drugs, there are other bad habits. If, for example, a man is fond of gambling, then this can also lead to very unpleasant situations.
4. Deceives
Lying is something that can alienate many. Moreover, a person can lie not only about major events, but also in small things. This should alert even more. If a man is deceiving in those matters that, it would seem, do not deserve special attention, then he may turn out to be just a pathological liar. Because of this, a lot of problems can arise in the future. A man will hide where he was, with whom he spent time, what he did. And there is not far from betrayal.
3. Hacking
If a man raises a woman’s hand, he should run away from him as quickly as possible. Even if he later tears tearfully for forgiveness and promises that this was the last time, one cannot believe. If the assault occurred once, then it will certainly happen again and again. At the same time, a man can even show himself right, blame a woman for the fact that she herself brought him, she begged herself. In this way, guilty feelings are brought up, and the victim begins to think that maybe she really is to blame. Not! In no case should you think so! If a man allowed himself to hit a woman, then it is better to leave him without delay. And it’s worth writing a statement to the police.
2. Strongly does not want children
This paragraph echoes the paragraph regarding joint future plans. If a woman is dear to a man, if he plans to connect his life with her, then he will dream of having children. If there are no such thoughts, then this indicates a frivolous relationship. In addition, there is a risk that a man simply does not want children at all, that is, he is the so-called childfree. Do not think that in the future the beliefs of a person will change. And even more so, do not try to get pregnant fraudulently. It will not lead to anything good. It is better to break off relations and find a man who dreams of a daughter or son.
1. Does not trust
Distrust is another sign of a sick relationship. Partners should trust each other and not get on their nerves with unnecessary questions. If a man demands from a woman an almost minute report for the day, if he constantly asks who and where she was with, if he does not believe the words said, then he should be very wary. Distrust is often present in emotional tyrants, abusers who try to subjugate a woman and make her guilty. Also, distrust can manifest itself in a man who himself has guilty somewhere. Usually, if a man is cheating, then the woman suspects the same. Do not endure endless questions and suspicions.
Thus, there are ten signs that signal that you should never associate your life with a man, that you should leave him. Of course, far from the whole set may appear in a relationship, but if at least two symptoms are present, then this already indicates the need for a break. Such relations will not bring happiness anyway, and over time the situation will worsen.